by patrah » Sun Apr 02, 2017 5:49 am
Honestly with love and loved ones, it not only takes a long time.....
it takes a life time....
Eventually the deep wrenching pain takes a back seat to having to live....
Without that one who we love....
It is so difficult to love someone who is no longer tangible, but whose love and life is still very real,in our hearts....
Married people sometimes jokingly say to people like me who have never married....
"Oh be glad you're not married....
I have got to say, in the instance of loving another so immensely, and having to live without them, this would be the reason I wonder....
No joke, this would have to be the ultimate heartbreak.....
However, in my experience, the amount of care in loving another probably matches the pain of the loss....
I mean to love deeply, must be a wonderful wonderful experience, not to even be tarnished by the passing.....
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