I think the main reason is because she feels she is "the oldest!", feels put upon cause oldest brother live half a state away and youngest (my hubby) works (she is retired lives 2 lousy doors down) and MIL put everything in her name and a kids name except hubbys... the savings was in hers and oldest son's name, checking SIL name and hers and property and truck eldest sons again.. there's a will but the day she got out of one nursing rehab going to a new one after having a HUGE stroke and doped to the gills SIL who was moving her from one to the other pulls into bank has a underling come out to car and changed the savings from MIL and eldest names to hers and MILs and now no attorney will touch it. But that's just money (we are looking at over $200,000) but he don't care about $..
Its also the other actions as well. Hubby's own things that his mother borrowed or he had there and THEY knew were his they laid claim to.. tried to keep his tablesaw, a few guns he lent her when she was having trouble with a armadillo etc yea its just a gun but it was one his dead father bought him, calling etc talking ONLY when THEY need something... its because of them (besides grieving) just he is really hurt and down and I'm P'O'd....
He has never and would never even say boo to them he don't deserve their attitudes and ignoring the phone is only marginally working! They are like ticks cant shake them off!
the freezer spell I aimed it to "freeze" her attitude towards him, and "stop" her actions of any type that could affect him... physically, emotionally, spiritually .in ANY way.
I still want to do the "Mirror Box" though... I have some dead dried wasps, cats claws, graveyard dust, and snake skin but need a little more of something just not sure what yet~

I know I probably shouldn't but Hey I'm being conservative her! There are so much more I wanna do but am restraining myself~
